The Jefferson Fisher Podcast How to Sound Assertive
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Jul 23, 2024 Learn how to sound more assertive with simple yet powerful phrases that boost your confidence. Discover the common mistakes people make when trying to communicate assertively and how to steer clear of them. Emphasize self-worth by minimizing apologies and mastering the art of saying 'no.' Engage in practical exercises that eliminate hedging language, helping you visualize assertive situations. Transform your communication style for more productive interactions while staying respectful.
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Stop Over-Apologizing
- Stop over-apologizing; it diminishes your presence and undermines your value.
- Replace "sorry" with "thank you" to express gratitude and assert your worth.
Stop Undervaluing Your Words
- Avoid undervaluing your words by using phrases like "dumb question" or "probably better than me."
- Instead, add to the conversation with phrases like, "Can I build on that?"
Embrace 'No'
- Embrace the power of "no" as a complete sentence.
- Avoid over-explaining or justifying your decisions, as it weakens your assertiveness.