Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - Will He Make The Space For Me
Jan 20, 2022
A woman grapples with having her new boyfriend's deceased wife's memory looming large in their relationship. They discuss the emotional complexities of dating someone with a rich past while navigating personal insecurities. The conversation emphasizes the need for honest communication to create space for new love. Listeners gain insights into embracing vulnerability, which is crucial for fostering intimacy. Through storytelling and shared reflections, they explore building a new home together amidst lingering attachments.
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The Caller's Dilemma
- The caller, a 48-year-old divorcée, met a 59-year-old widower.
- His deceased wife's belongings are still prevalent in his house, making her uncomfortable.
Focus on Feelings
- Esther Perel advises the caller to focus on her feelings rather than the objects.
- She suggests asking if there's room in his heart for her.
Underlying Insecurities
- Perel suggests that the caller's discomfort stems from her own insecurities.
- These insecurities are amplified by the presence of the deceased wife's belongings.