In this episode, Dr. Emily answers personal sex and relationship questions, covering topics like orgasm techniques, chastity play, erotic lactation, and anal sex. She provides recommendations for positions to achieve orgasm with straight legs, discusses different positions for solo play and experimentation, and explores the role of chastity in the bedroom. Dr. Emily also delves into the taboo fantasy of erotic lactation and emphasizes consent and health safety.
Anal sex can be pleasurable and enjoyable for some individuals, and it's important to let go of limiting beliefs and explore this preference.
Experimenting with different positions, sensations, and open communication can help individuals achieve vaginal orgasms with straight legs.
Delayed ejaculation is common and not necessarily a cause for concern, as long as both partners are comfortable and enjoying the experience.
Engaging in erotic lactation can enhance intimacy, release oxytocin, and create a strong connection between partners, as long as breast milk is obtained safely.
Deep dives
Exploring Anal Sex and Overcoming Taboos
Some people may still consider anal sex taboo, but it's important to explore and see if it feels good and enjoyable. The speaker encourages individuals to let go of limiting beliefs and past negative experiences. Anal sex can be smoother and more pleasurable for some individuals compared to vaginal penetration. It is a valid and common preference. It is essential to prioritize pleasure and prioritize open exploration.
Different Positions for Vaginal Orgasms
A listener asks for positions that can help them achieve a vaginal orgasm with straight legs. The host suggests a few positions, including missionary with legs squeezed together, flat doggy style with a pillow under the stomach, or spooning with legs closer. The speaker encourages the listener to explore different sensations and find what works best for them. Open communication and taking the time to experiment can lead to discovering new pleasures.
Delayed Ejaculation and Power Play
Another caller discusses their partner's delayed ejaculation, potentially caused by engaging in male chastity and edging practices. The host explains that delayed ejaculation is common for some individuals, and it doesn't necessarily matter what caused it. As long as both partners are comfortable and enjoying the sexual experiences, there's no need to worry. Open and honest communication is key to understanding each other's needs.
Erotic Lactation and Intimacy
A caller inquires about the practice of erotic lactation, where they engage in breastfeeding as a form of intimacy. The host highlights how common and normal this fantasy is, with many people expressing interest in breast milk. Erotic lactation can enhance intimacy, release oxytocin, and help connect partners during the postpartum period. It's essential to ensure the breast milk is obtained safely by using trusted sources.
Anal Pleasure and Normalizing Preferences
A caller shares how their partner experiences pain during vaginal penetration but derives pleasure from anal sex. The host explains that anal pleasure is valid and common, as the anus contains numerous nerve endings. Exploring different forms of pleasure and normalizing diverse preferences can strengthen intimacy and connection within a relationship.
Overcoming Vaginal Pain and Embracing Exploration
The podcast addresses the issue of vaginal pain during intercourse. Listeners are encouraged to seek help, as vaginal pain can often be relieved through proper guidance or physical therapy. It's crucial for individuals not to feel ashamed and to prioritize their sexual health and exploration.
Benefits of Adult Sex Education and Open Conversations
A caller discusses the positive impact of adult sex education and expresses gratitude for the show. The host emphasizes the importance of open communication, addressing desires, and embracing sexual exploration. By challenging beliefs and engaging in conversations, individuals can find new ways to connect and enhance their sexual experiences.
I’m answering my listeners’ most personal sex and relationship questions LIVE today. Can you only orgasm with straight legs? I’ve got positions and recommendations to help you get there. Nervous that chastity play is giving your partner delayed ejaculation? I ease your worries and help you collaborate with your partner for mutually fulfilling sex. Plus, we get into other kinky calls like erotic lactation and anal sex.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to teach your body new ways to orgasm
Common causes of vaginal pain
About chastity play and penis cage safety
Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.
