Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled Demanding, Stressed, and Aggressive - What's Happened to My Gentle Child?
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Nov 4, 2025 Explore the tumultuous journey of a once-gentle child who becomes unusually aggressive after the arrival of a new sibling. Learn how strong emotions can emerge during transitions and why sibling dynamics may escalate conflict. Discover effective strategies for staying calm while setting boundaries and empowering children to express their feelings safely. Janet emphasizes the importance of family meetings, self-care for parents, and steadfast support, reminding us that children seek presence over perfection.
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Behavior Hides The Vulnerable Child
- A child’s calm gentle self appears when they feel emotionally regulated and safe.
- Janet Lansbury emphasizes that behavior masks a vulnerable child who needs help returning to that state.
Parent Letter About A Struggling Four-Year-Old
- A parent describes a four-year-old who became demanding, aggressive, and loud after a sibling arrived.
- The child wakes wanting immediate help with big projects and lashes out when told to wait.
Co-Regulate By Staying Calm
- Interpret the timing as related to the new sibling and accept his strong feelings as normal.
- Stay calm so you can co-regulate and be the steady presence he needs during this phase.
