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Burnt Toast by Virginia Sole-Smith

Why America is Scared of Single Women

Aug 1, 2024
Lyz Lenz, author of the thought-provoking newsletter Men Yell at Me, dives into her inspiring journey post-marriage in her new book, This American Ex-Wife. She critiques societal norms around marriage, emphasizing personal happiness over duration. The conversation touches on the systemic challenges single parents face and the historical context of marriage's patriarchal roots. Lenz also shares her personal triumphs in embracing solitude and empowerment, illustrating how finding joy in independence reshapes life after divorce.
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  • Reevaluating the traditional expectations of marriage highlights that personal fulfillment should take precedence over lifelong commitments that may not serve happiness.
  • Divorce can serve as a liberating step for women, enabling them to reclaim their happiness and build a supportive community post-separation.

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Rethinking Marriage

The discussion emphasizes the need to reevaluate traditional notions of marriage, particularly the idea that a good marriage must last a lifetime. It's pointed out that many fulfilling relationships do not endure and that life presents challenges that can disrupt even the best unions. By holding onto rigid expectations about marriage, individuals may find themselves in partnerships that no longer serve their happiness. A call is made for a broader understanding of what constitutes a successful relationship, advocating for personal happiness and satisfaction as the ultimate goals.

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