Life Kit Dear LK: Do I have to read the book my husband wrote?
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Sep 17, 2022 In this engaging discussion, award-winning speaker and licensed marriage and family therapist Kiaundra Jackson shares valuable insights into the complexities of married life. She tackles the delicate issue of supporting a partner's creative endeavors, even when preferences clash. Kiaundra emphasizes the importance of honest communication and using methods like the 'hamburger method' for constructive feedback. Listeners will discover tips for nurturing creativity while balancing personal tastes, ultimately understanding how to foster supportive relationships.
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Honest Feedback
- Be honest with your partner about their writing style if you don't enjoy it.
- Find alternative ways to support their creative endeavors.
The Hamburger Method
- Use the "hamburger method" for delivering criticism: start with a positive, then the negative, then end positive.
- Honesty is the best policy, even if it's painful.
Managing Expectations
- Expectations in relationships should be defined by both partners.
- Unmet expectations can lead to hurt feelings, so discuss needs openly.