Thou shalt remember, that you are what you listen to They say you're the sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with - so choose wisely. But I say, you're the sum of the 5 songs you listen to the most - so tune wisely. Well, I guess the proof is in the playlist... Follow Phoebe on Instagram @phoebeacp or join the Train Wreck Podcast Community Facebook group. Want to hear more Phoebe? Listen to Phoebe, Shad & Tom podcast.