Learn why you should cheer your kids on while nurturing and respecting their interests, emphasizing the importance of supporting your children's dreams and talents and highlighting the significance of being there for your kids even when they face setbacks.
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Quick takeaways
As a dad, your role is to believe in and support your child's aspirations, even if they seem unrealistic.
Being a good fan means providing unconditional support and understanding without being overbearing or controlling.
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The Importance of Being a Fan of Your Kid
Your role as a dad is to be a fan of your child, regardless of their interests or talents. Just as Jim Valvano's father supported his son's unlikely dream of winning an NCAA championship, you must believe in your child's aspirations, even if they seem unrealistic. On the other hand, if your child excels at something and has the potential to go pro, it is still your job to be their fan. Instead of criticizing or pushing them too hard, they need your support and encouragement. Being a fan means being someone who loves and roots for them, without being overbearing or controlling.
A Fan with a Healthy Relationship
To be a good fan, you don't need to become obsessed or take extreme measures. Your child doesn't need a drill sergeant or someone who calls them out for their shortcomings. They need you to be a fan who supports and loves them unconditionally. It's not about demanding special treatment or berating teachers. What they need is someone who understands the game and has a healthy relationship with it. Just be a fan, show your genuine support, and be there for them in their journey.
“Maybe your kid is into weird stuff. Maybe their heavy metal band sucks--or their talents as a white MC are almost offensive. Maybe you can’t stand the shows they like, or maybe their dream is an unlikely one at best.”
Learn why you should cheer your kids on while nurturing and respecting their interests, on today’s Daily Dad podcast.
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