Life Kit Dear LK: My kids are enemies. What should I do?
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Jan 26, 2023 
In this insightful discussion, clinical psychologist and parenting expert Becky Kennedy, founder of Good Inside, tackles the messy world of sibling rivalry. She offers valuable insights into a specific case where a sister bullies her brother, explaining the emotional underpinnings of such behavior. Kennedy emphasizes the importance of communication and empathy to foster healthier relationships among siblings. She also shares practical strategies for parents, helping them navigate the chaos while promoting emotional resilience in their children.
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Addressing the Daughter's Behavior
- View your daughter as a "good kid having a hard time," not a "bad kid doing bad things."
- Provide a safe space for her to express negative feelings about her brother without judgment.
Supporting the Son
- Reassure your son that his sister's words are not his fault and that you will intervene.
- Acknowledge his hurt feelings and apologize for not protecting him enough.
Helping the Son Process Mean Words
- Ask your son how he feels when his sister says mean things, showing interest in his perspective.
- Teach him to reject those words, emphasizing they reflect his sister's struggles, not his worth.