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The Pro Church Tools Show with Brady Shearer

10 Ways Churches Scare Off Newcomers

Aug 7, 2024
Discover the surprising behaviors that can scare off newcomers at churches. Insider jargon, forced small talk, and unfriendly vibes top the list. An authentic online presence is crucial for welcoming digital visitors. The importance of structured services and clear communication can't be overstated. And don't forget about singles—they often feel sidelined in a family-focused environment. Small changes can make a big difference in fostering an inclusive and friendly church atmosphere that retains new visitors.
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Quick takeaways

  • Creating a warm welcome for newcomers should prioritize subtlety to avoid making them feel exposed and uncomfortable.
  • Providing context for church jargon and practices is essential to help visitors feel included and engaged in the church community.

Deep dives

Uncomfortable New Visitor Spotlight

Churches often unintentionally make new visitors uncomfortable by singling them out during services. Welcoming them by asking them to stand and receive applause can draw unwelcome attention, making them feel exposed in an already intimidating environment. Visitors may find such gestures unsettling, as entering a church usually involves navigating existential discussions that require a level of vulnerability. The aim of creating a warm welcome should focus on subtlety to ensure newcomers feel at ease rather than spotlighted.

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