Women of Impact #1 Divorce Judge Exposes Cheaters, Liars & How to Know if it’s Love or a Lie | Judge Lynn Toler - PT 2
Oct 30, 2025
Join Judge Lynn Toler, a former television judge known for her sharp insights on relationships, as she dives deep into the intricacies of love and loss. Discover her practical strategies for staying calm in conflicts and the emotional intelligence needed to navigate tough conversations. She sheds light on why people remain in unhappy relationships, the importance of treating marriage like a business, and her personal journey of resilience after 34 years of marriage. Learn about the 'compatibility test' every couple should take before tying the knot!
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Teach Instead Of Escalate
- When your partner becomes insecure or resentful, refuse to escalate and instead set firm boundaries about how you will behave.
- Be consistent: praise niceness, be distant when distant, and teach your partner how to treat you by modeling new behavior.
How TV Changed Her Marriage
- After Judge Lynn got on TV her husband lost his business and became insecure, which changed their dynamic.
- She used her mother's advice and stepped back, set boundaries, and slowly rebuilt equilibrium over 18 months.
Leaving Unravels More Than Love
- Change is hard because leaving unravels every part of your life: money, housing, children, identity.
- Consider a third option: stay and intentionally make the relationship better through early therapy and negotiated trades.