Heroic Chat with Patricia Ryan Madson: Finding the Balance
Feb 19, 2024
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Join Patricia Ryan Madson in a lively discussion about personal growth, authenticity, and gratitude. Dive into embracing life's journey, exploring attention, acceptance, and appreciation, finding purpose in the present moment, and fostering empathy and gratitude in relationships. Learn how to integrate improv principles into daily life and express gratitude within the community.
Practice gratitude and appreciation for everyday things to inject spontaneity into your day.
Perform three secret acts of service for your partner to build empathy and deepen connections.
Acknowledge and apologize sincerely when triggers occur to strengthen relationships and foster understanding.
Deep dives
Practice gratitude and appreciation for everyday things
One way to incorporate the principles of improvisation into a structured day is to practice gratitude and appreciation for the everyday things around you. Notice the details and take a moment to appreciate them. For example, take a different route home from work and pay attention to the new things you see along the way. Another idea is to perform three secret acts of service for your partner without seeking recognition. These small acts can help shift your focus from yourself to others and inject a sense of spontaneity into your day.
Building empathy through secret service
To build empathy, try the exercise of performing three secret acts of service for your partner throughout the day. Pay attention to what is going on in their life and find small ways to assist them without seeking recognition. This exercise can help bridge the gap between different perspectives and foster a deeper connection.
Apologize and acknowledge when triggers occur
When triggers occur and feelings are hurt, it's important to acknowledge and apologize for any hurt caused. Taking ownership of our actions and admitting when we may have made a mistake can help repair and strengthen relationships. Taking a moment to apologize sincerely and express gratitude can go a long way in fostering understanding and empathy between partners.
Incorporate small exercises from 'Improv Wisdom'
The book 'Improv Wisdom' offers various exercises and practices that can be incorporated into a structured day. One example is going home a different way, challenging yourself to take a different route that you would not usually choose. Another suggestion is to have the mindset of saying 'yes' to opportunities or suggestions from others throughout the day. These small exercises can help break the routine and inject spontaneity into your day, fostering a more improvisational mindset.
Practice breathing and reflection moments
In moments of tense or triggering situations, taking a few deep breaths and reflecting on your thoughts and emotions can help bring about a sense of calm and clarity. This pause allows you to respond rather than react, giving you the freedom to choose a more empathetic and compassionate approach.
In today’s Heroic Chat, we are joined by Patricia Ryan Madson.
Patricia Ryan Madson is the author of Improv Wisdom: Dont Prepare, Just Show Up and a professor Emerita from Stanford University where she taught from 1977-2005. In the Drama Department she served as the head of the undergraduate acting program and developed the improvisation program.