My guest is James-Olivia Chu Hillman, one of my mentors and someone who has taught me SO MUCH about relating!

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In this episode, I bare my heart to James-Olivia and they share their skills around holding non-judgmental space.

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TW: We discuss an incident at my son's school where he threatened to bring a 6un to school and how well (sarcasm) that went over with the school authorities.

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I struggle with knowing what type of accountability is "fair" and "right" to hold a young, neurodivergent child to, without "pissing off" everyone for letting something so serious "slide."

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I share this conversation in the hopes that it resonates with other parents who have had similar struggles, of themselves or their child getting vilified by the over-culture, and of struggles around how to do compassionate and appropriate accountability in an over-culture that over-couples accountability with punishment.

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JAMES-OLIVIA SHOW NOTES:

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Website: https://inquisitivehuman.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inquisitive_human/

Upcoming offerings:

SKILLED & SOVEREIGN

A relationship skills intensive for humans who want to connect deeply, interrupt their own relational fuckery, communicate cleanly, be more themselves, and relate competently when difference is present and the stakes are high…

https://inquisitivehuman.com/

REGARD

An exploration & practice of right relationship.

https://inquisitivehuman.com/regard

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