

123: How To Date Intentionally and Find a Healthy Relationship — In the Trenches with Ali Jackson
23 snips Feb 11, 2025
Explore the realities of long-distance relationships and discover if they're worth the emotional investment. Learn to differentiate between limerence and genuine connection, ensuring you're truly interested, not just infatuated. Get tips on addressing exclusivity without ruining the vibe, and recognize red flags in casual flings. Plus, there's a wake-up call about waiting for someone—it's time to take action! Tune in for raw, unfiltered advice that will reshape your dating journey and lead to healthier relationships.
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Release Outcome, Not Effort
- Release outcome expectations in dating, but still put in effort.
- Don't expect to find love without trying, much like any other goal.
Move For Yourself
- Move to a new city for yourself, not for a potential relationship.
- If a relationship is meant to be, it will happen regardless of location.
Casual Coffee Date
- If unsure about someone's romantic interest, suggest a casual daytime meetup like coffee.
- Avoid dinner or drinks, which can escalate physical intimacy prematurely.