The Niche Is You Your Becoming Will Offend Who You Were
Oct 20, 2025
Growth can feel like an internal battle, as we confront old identities while striving for new ones. Tissue tears often accompany evolution, revealing the need to grieve past selves. Distinguishing between superficial changes and those deep-rooted in purpose is crucial. Discomfort is not just a challenge; it's a sign of spiritual pruning, preparing us for growth. As we evolve, boundaries with those who knew the old us may become necessary. Ultimately, embracing evolution requires gratitude for past lessons and trust in the journey ahead.
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Tension Signals Transformation
- Growth creates internal conflict because old habits and comforts no longer serve your next level.
- Tension in transformation is formation, not failure, and signals necessary change.
2014: Starting From Scratch
- In 2014 Matt restarted his life across relationships, work, and living situation and felt deeply humbled.
- He then gained clarity and understanding that only came from those hard experiences.
Curate Habits And Environments
- Observe which habits and environments no longer support your goals and let them go deliberately.
- Choose environments and people that align with your evolving energy to speed growth.