

2832: Habit Change by Jessi Kneeland on Self-Compassion and Personal Growth
10 snips Jan 6, 2025
Delve into the psychology behind lasting habit change and why willpower often falls short. Uncover how small mindset shifts and self-compassion can break through barriers to personal growth. Explore the deeper needs influencing our habits and recognize the vital role of intrinsic motivation. Learn that shame and self-blame hinder progress, while understanding your resistance can lead to healthier behaviors. It's a journey towards meaningful change, where compassion takes center stage.
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Intrinsic Motivation
- We're intrinsically motivated by our deepest needs and priorities, not just feeling good.
- These needs often have nothing to do with what we think makes us feel better.
Self-Judgment
- We create stories about our values and then judge ourselves for not living up to them.
- This lack of self-awareness keeps us from changing and feeling good.
Understanding Habits
- Don't focus on changing habits directly; first, understand how they serve you.
- Your actions always have a deeper purpose, even if you can't see it yet.