Explore the difference between thinking and looking at experiences, delving into the essence of a problem by questioning the unanswerable. Emphasize the importance of looking deeper into our behavior, uncovering underlying emotions and patterns. Connect with the energy and sensations in the present moment, embracing the unknown with curiosity. Release attachments to alleviate suffering and frustration in life.
Directly looking at the discomfort or sensations before reaching for a drink can lead to new insights and understanding.
Exploring underlying sensations and feelings can provide a deeper understanding beyond simplistic cause-and-effect explanations.
Deep dives
The difference between thinking versus looking
The episode discusses the distinction between thinking about our experiences and direct looking at them. The speaker emphasizes the importance of looking at the essence of a problem rather than dwelling on high-level thoughts. An example is given about a person in the community who felt they were drinking more than desired. Instead of thinking about the problem, the speaker encourages genuinely looking at the discomfort or sensations that arise before reaching for a drink. By shifting from abstract thinking to direct looking, new insights and understanding can emerge.
Uncovering the hidden dynamics behind actions
The episode highlights how the mind can often provide simplistic cause-and-effect explanations for our actions without delving into the real complexities at play. The speaker mentions an example of someone drinking an entire bottle of wine just because it was open, leading to self-judgment and confusion. The speaker encourages looking beyond the surface level cause and effect and exploring the underlying sensations and feelings preceding the action. By carefully looking at what is truly happening in real-time, beyond mere summaries and concepts, a deeper understanding can be gained.
The power of looking with curiosity and humility
The episode emphasizes the significance of looking at our experiences with humility and curiosity. The speaker suggests that holding on to desires, agendas, and fixed beliefs about how our life should be can contribute to frustration and suffering. By adopting a curious perspective and asking, 'What even is this?', we can observe our experiences with fresh eyes and explore what is truly arising in the present moment. The speaker encourages looking beyond thought and leaning into sensations and energy, ultimately leading to a new level of understanding and freedom.
In this episode, we’ll explore the difference between thinking and looking. Thinking is taking what’s said as another concept to go back and ponder. It’s adding more thought to what is already a lot of thought.Looking is looking into what’s here now, before labels and concepts. It looks like curiosity rather than pondering. There may be