47. Jess Thots: Finding Joy as a Middle Eastern Midwesterner, Reality Dating, and a New Ick
Nov 2, 2023
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Jess, a first generation Lebanese American, discusses her experience as a Middle Eastern Midwesterner. She shares her *Official* Dating Show Rankings and talks about setting boundaries at work. They also unlock a new ick and explore finding joy in day-to-day life. The episode covers topics such as representation, the impact of 9/11, reality TV shows, blind spots, safe driving, and relationship security.
Setting boundaries at work is essential for maintaining a healthy work-life balance and preventing burnout.
Being kind and strong involves balancing empathy and assertiveness, treating others with respect while advocating for oneself.
Deep dives
Setting boundaries at work
Setting boundaries at work is essential for maintaining a healthy work-life balance. It requires consciously evaluating whether certain tasks or commitments are necessary and align with your personal schedule and priorities. By communicating your needs to your manager and being clear about what you can accommodate, you can prevent overextending yourself. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but setting boundaries allows you to prioritize self-care and avoid burnout.
Being kind and strong
Being kind and strong is a valuable trait that involves balancing empathy and assertiveness. It starts with mutual respect for oneself and others. By treating others with respect and expecting the same in return, you create a foundation for kindness and strength. It's important to advocate for yourself and assert your needs while maintaining a considerate and supportive attitude. Reflect on your actions and reactions, ensuring that they align with your values of kindness and strength.
Adding joy to life
Adding joy to life requires actively seeking out moments of connection and positivity. Embrace small moments, like engaging in conversations with strangers or sharing experiences that made your day on social media. Celebrate the small victories and find joy in everyday interactions. Kind gestures, like giving genuine compliments, can not only brighten someone else's day but also bring joy to your own life. Look for opportunities to create and experience joy in daily life.
Additional thoughts and observations
The speaker also shared personal anecdotes and observations, including the importance of being aware of one's own reactions and behaviors, the concept of finding joy in unexpected places, and a lighthearted remark about a driving behavior and its implication on one's sex life. These additional thoughts and observations contribute to the overall conversational tone and personal touch of the episode.
It's a solo episode this week as your lover comes to you from the depths of her heart at a time when joy is hard to find. She shares a bit about her experience as a first generation Lebanese American, then moves on to a highly requested topic: her *Official* Dating Show Rankings.
Next, Jess feels seen by a recent DM, asking her to talk about how to set boundaries at work, prioritize being simultaneously kind and strong, and find joy in day-to-day life. Plus, new ick unlocked - the only objective way to know if a couple be f**kin'.
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This episode was produced by none other than our prince, Abi Newhouse. DM her for your audio editing needs!
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DISCLAIMER: All opinions are our own. We are not therapists or health professionals, or professional of any kind, really. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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