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1932: The Dangers Of Post Break-Up Dating by Eddie Corbano of Loves A Game on Finding a Relationship Online

Oct 18, 2023
Eddie Corbano, breakup and divorce coach, discusses the dangers of post break-up dating and emphasizes the importance of self-healing and growth before entering a new relationship. He provides three rules for post-break updating and shares insights on preparing oneself to start dating again after a breakup, including factors like co-parenting and intrusive thoughts.
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  • Diving into dating too quickly after a breakup, especially through online dating, can lead to disappointment and hinder the chances of finding a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
  • Approaching post-breakup dating with caution, taking time to heal, enjoying life, and not rushing into a new relationship can increase the chances of meeting the right person when the time is right.

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The Danger of Dating Too Soon After a Breakup

One of the mistakes people often make after a breakup is diving into dating too quickly. This is particularly risky when attempting online dating, as it often leads to disappointment and heartbreak. After a breakup, there is a void that needs to be filled, and many individuals are desperate to recreate the feeling of security and intimacy with a new partner. However, if you're still emotionally attached to your ex and constantly comparing new potential partners to them, you undermine your chances of finding a healthy and fulfilling relationship. It's crucial to take the time to heal and be at peace with yourself before entering the dating world again.

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