Starting Scared: Why You're More Ready Than You Think (featuring Holly Tate)

What if waiting until you’re ready keeps you from ever starting? 

In this episode of Life After Ministry, Matt Davis sits down with Holly Tate, founder of The Ready Network, to talk about leadership, courage, and stepping into the unknown.

Holly shares her own story of transition - from years at Vanderbloemen, to joining Leadr, to launching her own work helping leaders and teams move from stuck to unstuck. 

Along the way, she opens up about fear, the myth of readiness, and how emotional intelligence shapes the future of ministry leadership.

For pastors, boards, and ministry leaders wrestling with change, this episode offers both empathy and clarity: you don’t have to have it all figured out. You just need the courage to take the next step.

Key Takeaways

• Why emotional intelligence often outweighs skills in ministry hiring.
• The unique challenges of church staffing versus corporate staffing.
• Holly’s hardest transition and what it taught her about calling.
• How the Ready Framework moves leaders from chaos to clarity.
• Why starting scared is better than never starting at all.
• The “Yes Barometer” that keeps teams from being derailed by new ideas.
• How transformation requires courage, vulnerability, and faith.

Chapter Markers

• 00:00 – Matt introduces Holly Tate
• 01:30 – Early leadership influences and church impact
• 05:30 – Lessons from staffing and hiring in ministry
• 08:50 – Transition to Leader and lessons from 2020
• 15:10 – Starting scared: email, podcast, and new ventures
• 21:00 – The Ready Framework explained
• 26:45 – Why teams need the Yes Barometer
• 29:30 – Becoming ready by doing

Next Steps

• Learn more resources for ministry transitions at MinistryTransitions.com
• Explore Holly’s coaching and clarity framework at TheReadyNetwork.com