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Shaunti Feldhahn: Guys Do It Too—Just in a Different Way

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Dec 10, 2024
Shaunti Feldhahn is an accomplished author known for her research on relationships and family dynamics. In this insightful discussion, she reveals the nuanced differences in how men and women experience intimacy. Shaunti emphasizes the importance of understanding male perspectives to improve communication in relationships. She also shares practical strategies to enhance intimacy, navigating the often misunderstood emotional dynamics between partners. Get ready for a data-driven dive into the complexities of desire and connection!
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INSIGHT

Two Types of Desire

  • Two primary desire types exist: initiating and receptive.
  • These different desire types, not mismatched libidos, often cause intimacy issues.
ADVICE

Initiating Intimacy

  • Give your wife a "heads-up" before initiating intimacy, especially if she has receptive desire.
  • Use a playful signal or phrase to get her in the mood.
INSIGHT

Men's Visual Nature

  • Men's visual nature is often misunderstood.
  • Most men try to honor women, their wives, and God despite visual temptations.
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