Explore the intriguing gender biases present in marriage counseling, where men often face an unfair advantage. The discussion emphasizes the importance of individual accountability over relationship dynamics. Discover how personal emotional states play a crucial role in achieving happiness within a marriage. Unpack the complexities of counseling that sometimes lean towards a 'victim mentality,' and consider new perspectives on fostering healthier connections.
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Codependency in Relationships
The 50-50 approach to relationships, where each partner tries to fulfill 50% of the other's needs, is based on codependency.
This creates a trap where individuals feel responsible for their partner's happiness, leading to unmet expectations and frustration.
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Relationships as Reflections
Relationships reflect one's internal emotional state, which shapes their perspective on the relationship.
Women often experience internal emotional storms driven by unhappiness with themselves, projecting this onto their husbands.
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Gynocentric Counseling
Marriage counseling is gynocentric, prioritizing women's interests and perceptions.
This creates a gender bias where therapists often validate women's experiences while overlooking men's perspectives.
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In this episode, I discuss the gender bias against men in marriage counseling and the limitations of working on the marriage vs. the individual issues we bring into the relationship.
Disclaimer:
The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse. Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
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