Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2581: When I Realized I Wasn’t A Lazy Mom, I Was Just Overwhelmed by Shawna Scafe of Simple On Purpose
May 8, 2025
Shawna Scafe challenges the pervasive myth of the 'lazy mom' by revealing the truth about overwhelm. She encourages mothers to shift from self-criticism to intentional prioritization, emphasizing peace and purpose over perfection. Listeners are reminded of the importance of self-care amidst societal pressures and the need to embrace imperfection in parenting. With a fresh perspective, Scafe champions recognizing limits and making thoughtful choices about how to spend each day.
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Overwhelm Mistaken for Laziness
- Feeling like a lazy mom often stems from being overwhelmed by endless tasks, not actual laziness.
- Moms juggle constant demands, leading to missed expectations and self-judgment as lazy.
Relaxation Feels Like Laziness
- Shauna actively moms all day, then feels overwhelmed by undone tasks during downtime.
- Even relaxing leads to guilt because downtime is misperceived as laziness.
Choose Priorities, Not Balance
- Balance in motherhood is a myth; life cycles through seasons with fluctuating demands and lessons.
- Choosing and committing to priorities is necessary amid vast responsibilities.