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Financial Feminist

172. Weaponized Incompetence and the Hidden Mental Load on Women with Paige Connell

Jul 23, 2024
Paige Connell, a working mom of four, discusses the dangers of the glamorized 'trad wife' movement, challenges of childcare costs, and maintaining financial security in relationships. The conversation delves into the mental load of motherhood, equitable relationships, and making family life more manageable. A candid look at the realities behind parenting, financial independence, and societal norms.
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  • The Tradwives movement glamorizes domestic roles but ignores the complexities of family dynamics.
  • High childcare costs in the US strain families and hinder women's career growth.

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The Mental Load and Resentment in Relationships

The mental load, often shouldered by women, encompasses the continuous to-do list of family responsibilities and household management. This burden includes remembering school events, birthdays, and household supplies, which women often keep track of without necessarily having tasks to complete. This leads to resentment when partners don't take initiative or constantly ask for guidance, resulting in strained interactions and emotional exhaustion.

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