#153: Toddler Throwing Toys When Mad & What Responsibilities Can You Expect for 3-Year-Old?
Aug 30, 2019
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Erin, a mom, shares parenting tips for toddlers and preschoolers. They discuss strategies for managing toddler tantrums, teaching appropriate behavior and emotion skills, calming angry behavior, setting consequences for a 3.5-year-old, age-appropriate responsibilities, and organizing a smoother home.
Understanding and addressing toddler tantrums involves developing emotion skills and social skills.
Around 3.5 years old, children can begin developing independence through tasks like getting dressed, cleaning up toys, and clearing the table.
Deep dives
Handling Toddler Tantrums
When dealing with toddler tantrums and aggression, it's important to understand the development of emotion skills and social skills. Emotion skills are internal, involving the recognition and processing of emotions, while social skills are external, displayed through behavior and communication. Babies and young toddlers primarily rely on the emotional part of their brain, making tantrums overwhelming. As children grow, their ability to control and express emotions improves. To address tantrums, parents can ignore attention-seeking behavior or set short consequences for inappropriate actions. Teaching emotion skills helps children understand and manage their feelings, crucial for developing good social skills.
Building Independence in a 3.5 Year Old
At around 3.5 years old, children can start developing independence by accomplishing certain tasks on their own. These tasks include getting dressed and undressed, putting on easy-to-manage shoes, cleaning up toys, throwing away their trash, and clearing the table after meals. While some assistance may be necessary, gradually encouraging independence can help children acquire essential life skills. Parents can also consider the Birth Order class and Raising Responsible Kids class offered by Your Village for further guidance on fostering independence in children.
Tips for Family Organization
Organizing family life can lead to smoother routines and reduced stress. When organizing, it's crucial to prioritize the most significant tasks, or 'big rocks,' such as meals and laundry. As these tasks become more manageable, it allows for more time to tackle other areas. Parents can gradually work on smaller 'rocks,' selecting what areas they want to focus on and improving efficiency one step at a time. Additionally, promoting children's responsibility and independence as they grow can free up time for parents and contribute to a more organized family life. The Family Organization and Raising Responsible Kids classes from Your Village offer valuable insights and strategies in this regard.
How do you help a toddler learn better behavior when they throw toys to show their anger? Ignoring has shown improvement but when it could hurt someone, this mom doesn't want to continue to ignore. What responsibilities should a 3 1/2 year be expected to take on? Erin shares a few tasks and how to teach her preschooler about this new expectation, along with a few other tasks she can begin prepping her son to take on in the coming months.