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The Parents Aren’t All Right

Oct 9, 2024
Claire Cain Miller, a reporter for The Upshot at The New York Times, dives into the pressures of modern parenting. She discusses how hyper-attentive parenting can negatively impact parents' health, labeling it a public health crisis. The conversation contrasts today's intensive parenting with past practices, emphasizing the emotional toll on parents, particularly mothers. Neuroscience plays a pivotal role in shaping modern approaches, highlighting how early experiences influence child development. Miller also emphasizes the need for community support and self-care.
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  • The U.S. Surgeon General warns that intense parenting is causing significant mental health issues among parents, making it a public health crisis.
  • The shift from hands-off to intensive parenting has created overwhelming pressure on parents to optimize their children's success, jeopardizing their well-being.

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The Public Health Crisis of Parenting

The U.S. Surgeon General has declared an urgent public health crisis regarding the mental health of today's parents, highlighting that the stress associated with parenting has reached alarming levels. The intensity of parenting, often referred to as 'intensive parenting', involves a high level of investment—both emotionally and financially—into a child's upbringing. This approach, characterized by constant engagement and enrichment, has become the normative standard across various socio-economic backgrounds, contributing to feelings of overwhelm among parents. Behavioral expectations for modern parents have shifted dramatically, leading to increased anxiety and health issues due to the immense pressure to optimize their children’s opportunities and successes.

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