The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma} Ep. 110: Does my child get dysregulated on purpose? Friday Q&A Series
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Feb 3, 2023 Ever wondered if your child's outbursts are intentional? This discussion tackles the confusion surrounding dysregulation and sheds light on how it often roots in trauma, rather than manipulation. Parents learn about the vital role of co-regulation for emotional stability and how to provide the support their children need. Exciting resources and community support for navigating these behaviors are also shared, making it a must-listen for anyone facing the challenges of parenting after trauma.
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Dysregulation's Purpose
- Dysregulation in children can escalate seemingly on purpose, but it's not manipulation.
- It's their nervous system seeking presence, safety, and co-regulation from past trauma.
Stored Dysregulation
- Kids with stored dysregulation haven't received needed co-regulation in the past.
- Past dysregulation, even caused by caregivers, resurfaces in the present, seeking resolution.
Recreating Dysregulation
- Children subconsciously recreate situations for their past dysregulation to get unmet needs met.
- This isn't intentional manipulation; it's their nervous system's attempt at healing.
