ManTalks Podcast Anonymous Guest - A Man’s Conversation With God
Oct 4, 2021
An anonymous guest, who has been married for 42 years, opens up about his struggles with communication and assertiveness in his relationship. He explores deep-seated issues of self-worth and fear of failure, revealing the impact of his upbringing. The conversation touches on navigating codependency, the challenges of expressing emotional needs, and the ties between masculinity and identity. They also delve into the importance of vulnerability and embracing inner emotions, as well as the journey towards self-acceptance and gratitude amid life's complexities.
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Pornography Revelation
- The guest revealed to his wife that he watched pornography, leading to a near-divorce experience.
- This triggered his abandonment fears, stemming from childhood threats of being given away.
Childhood Abandonment
- The guest's mother threatened to give her children away, creating conditional love and abandonment issues.
- This upbringing in a Catholic household, with strict rules and potential consequences, further solidified these fears.
Existential Crisis
- Questioning God's existence at 18 was a defining moment for the guest, leading to suicidal thoughts.
- He felt a loss of purpose and struggled with the idea of not having a supreme being to guide or protect him.