Detaching With Love: Breaking free from codependency in Dom/sub dynamics

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Welcome back, Devoted Ones! In this episode, Dawn and I dive into codependency and how it can infect, and ultimately cause harm to our relationship. We share stories of how we’ve shown up in codependent patterns in the past and what it’s taken to overcome them, and why we have to detach in order to experience the fullness of love and intensity in our Dom/sub relationship.

We also discuss the place that individuality and personal agency play in a deep, loving, spiritually connected union. In other words, how do we manage the fact that we’re separate people, but also desiring to experience the fullness of union, becoming one with each other.

This episode will be invaluable to any couple wanting to explore D/s together without losing yourselves, and in a way that honors both your individuality and your oneness.

Enjoy!

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00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion

00:33 Understanding Codependency

02:19 Personal Experiences with Codependency

03:23 Impact on Dominance and Submission

05:07 Navigating Codependency in Relationships

07:06 The Journey of Self-Discovery

08:49 Balancing Dependence and Independence

10:44 Challenges and Growth in Union

14:03 Maintaining Connection and Awareness

18:14 Overcoming Unconscious Patterns

28:01 Navigating Emotional Reactions

29:17 Facing Deep Wounds

32:11 The Importance of Authenticity

33:18 Understanding Individuality vs. Independence

36:07 Dominance and Submission Dynamics

38:53 Overcoming Codependency

41:08 Practical Examples and Reflections

48:37 Encouraging Authenticity in Relationships

53:55 Final Thoughts and Encouragement