16: The Secrets to Flirting & Charisma!

May 2, 2022

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This episode is something you have ASKED FOR! Flirting, building charisma & confidence is something we ALL want to get better at - whether we are single or coupled! I brought on one of my favorite experts, Kimmy Seltzer, who is a confidence therapist, flirting wingwoman and personal stylist. There is something for EVERYONE in this episode - woman or man!

What is the magic formula, The Charisma Quotient and how do you use it to build a sexy confidence?
What is the 'outside-in' approach?
Why does everyone (including men!) need a red dress moment? What was Kimmy's (and it has to do with Birkenstock's and nursing bras)....
What is the biggest style mistake men make? And women? What are the 3 Cs for style makeovers?
Why is flirting such an important part of dating and being irresistible?
HOW can you flirt, especially if you're shy?
What is a flirting move you can start TODAY?
How do you take the fear out of flirting & rejection?
How did Bela's client who went to Harvard change her approach -- which led to her marriage? :)
What are the best conversation starters to make a chat feel FUN?
What are the common mistakes women make when it comes to flirting and being in their feminine? Men?

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Kimmy's Bio: Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Image Expert. With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people’s lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe and flirting and how it impacts attraction. This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. Kimmy has been the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, a show on Amazon Live with SwayTv, Kimmy’s Love Hub and the cable reality series, The Romance. You can also listen to her on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox.