Reflecting on the importance of approaching children's actions with kindness and understanding to create better interactions and maintain accountability while considering their well-being.
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Interpret our kids' behavior generously, understanding that external factors may influence their actions.
Recognize the challenges children face, approach them with empathy, and provide support to help navigate life's complexities.
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Approaching kids with the most generous interpretation
When our kids do or say something, it's important to ask ourselves, "What is my most generous interpretation of what just happened?" This mindset allows us to soften our responses and improve our interactions with them. We should consider that their behavior might be influenced by factors such as tiredness, hunger, or a desire to have fun. It doesn't mean excusing everything or avoiding accountability, but rather starting from the belief that our kids are inherently good and doing their best in a challenging world.
The importance of acknowledging the difficulties of being a kid
Life can be frustrating and tough for everyone, especially for children. Their actions are often driven by their limited understanding of consequences or the influence of hormones. As parents, we should recognize these challenges and approach our kids with empathy and understanding. Giving them the benefit of the doubt and acknowledging their struggles creates a foundation of support and helps them navigate the complexities of life.
You know your kids are good. You’ve seen their sweetness, their cuteness since the beginning. You’ve seen them try. You’ve seen them feel shame when they’ve messed up.