Fierce Marriage

The 15-Second Kiss Experiment Revisited

Nov 12, 2025
Discover a unique marital experiment that can deepen connection—a simple 15-second kiss! Inspired by seasoned couples, the hosts explore how this practice can diffuse tension and refocus attention on one another. Learn about the emotional benefits of sustained kissing and how it can enhance intimacy, even amid busy lives. They encourage listeners to try it for themselves and share their experiences. Plus, gain insights into the theological context of marriage and the spiritual growth that comes from these practices.
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ANECDOTE

Origin Story Of The 15-Second Kiss

  • Ryan shares advice from a man married 50 years who said they did a 15-second kiss every day.
  • That story inspired Ryan's viral article called the 15 Second Kiss Experiment.
ANECDOTE

Family Kissing Moments

  • Ryan and Selena describe their own playful kiss habits and family moments around kissing.
  • They recount making lip balm with their daughter and receiving 'fluffy kisses' from her.
INSIGHT

Three Needs Of A Thriving Marriage

  • Ryan frames marriage needs as three things: context, tools, and closeness.
  • The 15-second kiss serves as a tangible tool that fosters closeness to enable other work in the marriage.
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