

Fierce Marriage
Ryan and Selena Frederick
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
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Dec 2, 2025 • 42min
Mocking Wives? When a Wife Struggles to Respect Her Husband: A Biblical Response
This episode tackles the toxic nature of mocking in marriage, highlighting how teasing can undermine a husband's confidence. The hosts examine biblical roles, emphasizing respect as key to a thriving partnership. They explore the importance of seeing husbands 'in their element' to foster appreciation. With practical steps to overcome disrespect, including repentance and gratitude, they stress that a wife's respect flows best when a husband loves sacrificially. It's a call for both partners to renew their mindset and strengthen their bond.

Nov 18, 2025 • 45min
Are S*x and Intimacy Challenges Helpful? Maybe
God designed marital closeness not only for physical connection but also to nurture emotional and spiritual unity. When husbands and wives pursue intimacy regularly, they often experience a deeper sense of being loved, fulfilled, adored, and valued by their spouse. Join us as we explore how Christ-centered surrender and Christ-honoring intimacy can transform both our inner lives and our marriages.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Nov 12, 2025 • 22min
The 15-Second Kiss Experiment Revisited
Discover a unique marital experiment that can deepen connection—a simple 15-second kiss! Inspired by seasoned couples, the hosts explore how this practice can diffuse tension and refocus attention on one another. Learn about the emotional benefits of sustained kissing and how it can enhance intimacy, even amid busy lives. They encourage listeners to try it for themselves and share their experiences. Plus, gain insights into the theological context of marriage and the spiritual growth that comes from these practices.

Nov 4, 2025 • 27min
Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage Part 2
Listen as we uncover God’s mission for marriage — to raise children who walk in the Lord and to reflect His love through our covenant relationships. Husbands are called to love their wives, and wives to submit to their husbands, walking in unity to bear lasting fruit. Though the enemy seeks to destroy the sanctity of marriage, godly couples stand as living proof of God’s perfect design — to be fruitful, multiply, and subdue the earth for His glory.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Oct 30, 2025 • 27min
Covenant Over Comfort: The Cosmic Purpose of Marriage (Part 1)
Marriage isn’t just a contract — it’s a covenant before God. Join us as we dive deep into the sacred reality that when a marriage ends, it’s more than the loss of a relationship — it’s the death of a family, the breaking of a divine promise. Because when we understand what and who we’re fighting for, we can stand firm in the promise that what God has joined together, no one can separate.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Oct 14, 2025 • 41min
The One Habit That Will Change Your Marriage Quickly and Forever
A Christ-centered home is built through daily habits of worship and trust. Family worship is how we honor God together—not perfectly, but faithfully.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Oct 7, 2025 • 51min
What Women Really Need in Marriage
Explore the essential dynamics of marriage, focusing on how men can create a safe and secure environment for their wives. The discussion highlights the importance of spiritual, emotional, and physical safety, along with practical steps for husbands to lead lovingly. Delve into biblical principles surrounding honor, relational boundaries, and financial provision. The hosts emphasize that ultimate security comes from Christ, encouraging couples to openly discuss their needs and pursue growth together. It's a heartfelt guide to nurturing more profound connections in marriage.

Sep 30, 2025 • 42min
The World Needs Spartan Wives
In this episode, we explore what it means for wives to stand guard over their marriages by guarding their hearts, staying rooted in God’s Word, and committing to prayer. We’ll discuss how a wife’s words and actions reflect the strength of her marriage and offer encouragement to remain steadfast in faith as she nurtures her home and relationship.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Sep 16, 2025 • 47min
The World Needs Fierce Men
Explore what it means to be a godly man in today's world. Discover how grief and faith redefine masculinity and the need for community support. Embrace distinctive manhood that nurtures young boys while fostering strength. Learn about the defining traits of fierce men, including resilience and courage in the face of societal challenges. The importance of building a brotherhood in faith is emphasized, promoting personal growth and leadership among men. Dive into these rich discussions on faith, integrity, and the essence of manhood.

Sep 2, 2025 • 33min
How to Thrive in Marriage During Season of Change
Change is a natural part of marriage—whether it’s a new job, a move, children, loss, or simply entering a new season of life. These moments can stretch and shape us, but they’re also opportunities to lean into God’s plan for your marriage. In this episode, we’ll share how to be intentional in times of transition, inviting God into the process so you and your spouse can stay grounded in faith, grow in love, and not just endure change—but truly thrive together.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!


