

Fierce Marriage
Ryan and Selena Frederick
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
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Jan 27, 2026 • 35min
How Modern “Dating” Culture Destroys Christian Marriages
Is modern dating unbiblical? Today we expose the worldly origins of casual dating and hookup culture, and why these modern constructs are actively destroying Christian marriages before they even begin. We break down the lost biblical art of courtship and the weight of the marriage covenant.RESOURCES:Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Jan 20, 2026 • 42min
9 Ways Husbands Forsake Their Wives
Discover nine surprising ways husbands often forsake their wives without realizing it. They delve into the impact of spiritual laziness and poor communication on marriages. The conversation touches on how a lack of church involvement and weak theology can distort leadership roles. Immaturity and failing to read emotional cues can lead to serious relationship strains. Lastly, the importance of valuing intimacy and pursuing one’s spouse is emphasized, highlighting the need for proactive love and connection in marriage.

Jan 13, 2026 • 39min
When a Wife Struggles to Honor Her Husband
In a world that normalizes wives only respecting their husbands when they "earn" it, many Christian marriages are falling into a trap. Today we dive into the needed truths of Ephesians 5 and identify nine common ways that wives dishonor their husbands.RESOURCES:Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Jan 7, 2026 • 33min
10 Horrible Tips for Marital Arguments
Communication is the single biggest downfall in marriages—bigger than finances, chores, and even sex. Today, we are taking an inverse approach by giving you 10 "horrible" tips guaranteed to ruin your relationship and kill intimacy. RESOURCES:Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

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Dec 30, 2025 • 34min
How to Create a Biblical Vision Statement for Your Family in 2026
Delve into the importance of creating a family vision statement and discover why 94% of families lack one. Uncover how a written vision provides clarity and assurance for family decisions. Hear personal stories about how parenthood inspired a focus on family priorities and learn a three-part framework: mission statement, core values, and envision statements. Get practical tips on using your vision for major decisions, and explore the benefits of unity and faster decision-making. Equip your family for the future!

Dec 23, 2025 • 26min
Struggling With Discontentment in Your Marriage? A Biblical Response
Explore the intriguing theology of contentment as a learned discipline, encouraging believers to face their imperfections head-on. Discover how Adam and Eve's differing tendencies illuminate marital dissatisfaction. Learn the distinction between righteous and unrighteous discontent, along with common pain points in marriage like communication and finances. Find inspiration in the stories of Job and Paul, emphasizing satisfaction amid struggles. Finally, embrace gratitude as a powerful antidote to discontent in your marriage.

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Dec 16, 2025 • 31min
How to Have a GOOD Sex Life (According to the Bible)
Dive into the transformative discussion on intimacy within marriage, exploring why a healthy perspective on sex is crucial. Uncover five biblical keys that redefine sexual goodness, emphasizing that it should be an enriching gift rather than a source of shame. The hosts highlight the importance of radical exclusivity and setting clear boundaries against external influences. With practical advice on recalibrating perceptions and fostering open conversations, this episode is a heartfelt invitation to enjoy intimacy as a sacred act within a committed relationship.

Dec 9, 2025 • 36min
The 3 P's that Will Poison Your Marriage (Revisited)
Discover the three subtle poisons that can undermine a marriage: Pennies, Perversion, and Pride. Delve into how the love of money breeds discontent and fear, and learn to seek God’s kingdom instead. Unmask the damaging effects of sexual perversion and the importance of nurturing healthy intimacy. Finally, explore how pride can lead to conflict and emotional distance, with Christ’s humility offering the perfect antidote. Together, these insights provide a roadmap to restore joy and connection in your relationship.

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Dec 2, 2025 • 42min
Mocking Wives? When a Wife Struggles to Respect Her Husband: A Biblical Response
This episode tackles the toxic nature of mocking in marriage, highlighting how teasing can undermine a husband's confidence. The hosts examine biblical roles, emphasizing respect as key to a thriving partnership. They explore the importance of seeing husbands 'in their element' to foster appreciation. With practical steps to overcome disrespect, including repentance and gratitude, they stress that a wife's respect flows best when a husband loves sacrificially. It's a call for both partners to renew their mindset and strengthen their bond.

Nov 18, 2025 • 45min
Are S*x and Intimacy Challenges Helpful? Maybe
God designed marital closeness not only for physical connection but also to nurture emotional and spiritual unity. When husbands and wives pursue intimacy regularly, they often experience a deeper sense of being loved, fulfilled, adored, and valued by their spouse. Join us as we explore how Christ-centered surrender and Christ-honoring intimacy can transform both our inner lives and our marriages.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!


