

Fierce Marriage
Ryan and Selena Frederick
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
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Sep 16, 2025 • 47min
The World Needs Fierce Men
Explore what it means to be a godly man in today's world. Discover how grief and faith redefine masculinity and the need for community support. Embrace distinctive manhood that nurtures young boys while fostering strength. Learn about the defining traits of fierce men, including resilience and courage in the face of societal challenges. The importance of building a brotherhood in faith is emphasized, promoting personal growth and leadership among men. Dive into these rich discussions on faith, integrity, and the essence of manhood.

Sep 2, 2025 • 33min
How to Thrive in Marriage During Season of Change
Change is a natural part of marriage—whether it’s a new job, a move, children, loss, or simply entering a new season of life. These moments can stretch and shape us, but they’re also opportunities to lean into God’s plan for your marriage. In this episode, we’ll share how to be intentional in times of transition, inviting God into the process so you and your spouse can stay grounded in faith, grow in love, and not just endure change—but truly thrive together.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Aug 26, 2025 • 40min
When is the Right Time to Have Kids or Stop Having Kids?
Maybe you're dreaming about what your family could look like one day, or maybe you've already begun the journey. But how do you know when your family is truly complete? Join us as we explore how to seek and trust God's plan for your family.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Aug 19, 2025 • 57min
Dealing with Anger and Abuse Biblically in Marriage
Abuse is never minimized in God’s Word—it’s a violation of His law. In this episode, we tackle the heavy but necessary topic of anger and abuse in marriage. What does the Bible say about it? How should Christians respond? And what steps can be taken toward safety, repentance, and true reconciliation?Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Aug 13, 2025 • 31min
Awesome Saving Strategies for Future and Fun
Ever feel overwhelmed by the idea of saving and investing? You’re not alone! In this episode, we share the heart behind being a good steward of your finances and give you practical steps to move forward. We hope you’ll join us!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Jul 30, 2025 • 38min
Common Arguments Couples Have Around Money
How we handle money reflects how we trust God. In this rare episode, we dig into why Jesus talked about money so much — and what it means for your marriage.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Jul 23, 2025 • 30min
Should a Wife Expect Her Husband to Do Household Chores?
Should husbands help with household chores? This discussion ignites passion as the hosts explore biblical views on marriage roles. They delve into traditional vs. modern expectations, emphasizing the need for cooperation rather than hierarchy. The conversation encourages couples to communicate openly about shared responsibilities, promoting a mindset of gratitude instead of entitlement. Grace and faith play key roles in navigating household dynamics, ultimately strengthening the marital partnership.

Jul 8, 2025 • 42min
The 'Man Pout' — What Is It, and How to Cure It?
We’ve all had those moments where someone shuts down instead of speaking up. In this episode, we’re decoding the 'Man Pout' — with compassion, clarity, and the tools to overcome it.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Jul 2, 2025 • 44min
The Unstoppable Power of a Grace Filled Marriage
Marriage thrives on grace, a crucial element for overcoming conflicts and nurturing deep connections. The discussion highlights the importance of forgiveness and understanding, showcasing how covenantal relationships foster healthier dynamics. Personal stories illuminate the challenges of judgment and the transformative power of grace, urging reflection on our capacity for mercy. Couples are encouraged to communicate openly, appreciate each other's contributions, and extend gratitude, particularly during tough times, to cultivate a stronger bond.

Jun 24, 2025 • 33min
Will These "Magic Questions" Help Your Marriage? (Part 2 of 2)
Discover surprising questions that can deepen your marital connection. The hosts discuss values like loyalty and hard work, sharing personal stories of growth. Explore the significance of cherishing life's moments and the power of meaningful conversations. Learn how faith and clear communication shape relationships. Through personal anecdotes, they highlight the importance of kindness and intentionality in nurturing bonds. This engaging dialogue is a treasure trove for couples looking to enhance their connection.