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Emma Dabiri - ‘We are still so obsessed with how we look’

Apr 23, 2025
Emma Dabiri, a broadcaster and historian, dives into society's obsession with appearance and beauty standards. She critiques the influence of social media on self-image and embraces a more holistic understanding of beauty. Emma shares personal stories about feeling like an outsider due to race and discusses the complexities of identity, especially in relation to parenting. The conversation also highlights the importance of embracing failure as a path to authenticity, encouraging listeners to redefine success and beauty in their lives.
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INSIGHT

Redefining Beauty Beyond Looks

  • Emma Dabiri explains beauty as more than appearance, embracing it as a verb tied to behavior and inner character.
  • She critiques ocular centrism as a Western cultural bias that overly prioritizes visual judgment, especially on social media.
ADVICE

Protect Yourself From Social Media

  • Protect yourself from constant comparison on social media by limiting how much you scroll.
  • Seek content like books without images to avoid visual overload and maintain mental health.
ANECDOTE

Struggles With Irish Language

  • Emma Dabiri struggled with Irish language in school due to punitive teaching methods that associated it with punishment.
  • Her childhood experience caused resentment and disconnection from Irish identity despite later appreciating the language.
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