Renowned author Pico Iyer shares his transformative experiences from over 100 visits to a California monastery. He discusses the profound craving for silence and the power of introspection, revealing how temporary solitude can reset our understanding of ourselves. Iyer emphasizes the importance of cherishing intangible memories over material possessions, and explores the liberating concepts of non-attachment and compassion in spiritual practice. His reflections also touch on the connection between literature, spirituality, and the quest for clarity in life.
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Embrace Unproductivity at the Monastery
Visit the monastery to escape anxieties and distractions.
Free yourself from the need to be productive to do justice to your life.
insights INSIGHT
Finding True Silence
Silence your mind to experience the world's true magnificence.
Escape the chattering self and embrace the listening, attentive self.
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Retreat Reflections
Elise Loehnen packs many books for retreats, unsure of her mood.
She finds liberation in not caring about work and being present.
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Aflame
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In the past three decades, renowned author Pico Iyer has made more than 100 trips to a small monastery in California. Today, he shares what he’s learned there, along with other moments of beauty from his new book Aflame. He talks about why many of us crave a particular type of silence, how to escape the trappings of our minds, why a recollection can be more profound than a realization, and how he’s come to see the people in his life more clearly.
For more on Pico Iyer, his books, and this special Benedictine hermitage, head over to my Substack.