Erectile Dysfunction, Pleasure & Somatic Healing for Men with Ron & Pono Stewart

More than half of men over 40 experience erectile dysfunction.

Yet almost no one talks about it.

Instead, many suffer in silence — carrying shame, anxiety, and a quiet sense that something is “wrong” with their body.

But what if erectile challenges aren’t just medical…

What if they’re somatic, emotional, and learned patterns that can be rewired?

In this grounded and deeply compassionate conversation, I’m joined by somatic sex educators and sexological bodyworkers Ron & Pono Stewart to explore sexual health, pleasure, and erotic wholeness for cock owners.

Together we unpack the real roots of:

• erectile dysfunction
• premature ejaculation
• porn conditioning
• performance anxiety
• shame around pleasure
• and the lack of sexual education for men

Rather than quick fixes or pills, Ron and Pono guide men back to something more foundational:

Breath.
Touch.
Safety.
Slowness.
Full-body pleasure.

Because an erection is a parasympathetic response.

It happens when the body feels safe.

And many men have never actually learned how to feel safe inside their own erotic body.

Through somatic practices, erotic massage, self-pleasuring rituals, and trauma-informed touch, they help clients literally recondition their nervous systems — moving from goal-oriented ejaculation toward sustained arousal, confidence, and deeper intimacy.

This episode is practical, honest, and refreshingly shame-free.

If you (or someone you love) has ever struggled with erections, staying present, or feeling disconnected from pleasure… this conversation is for you.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why erectile dysfunction is often nervous-system based, not just physical
• How stress, anxiety, and shame shut down erections
• The impact of porn conditioning on real-life intimacy
• Why many men can only orgasm