
Sobertown Podcast EP 192: Commitment vs Willpower in Sobriety - Sober Baddies
Jan 30, 2022
Dive into the intriguing clash between willpower and commitment in sobriety. Hosts tackle the myth of willpower as a limitless resource and stress the importance of building new habits. Discover how cravings can linger long after achieving sobriety milestones and explore the risks of delayed change. They redefine surrender as a daily practice filled with humility, emphasizing conscious choices to prevent relapse. Plus, enjoy insights on identity in recovery and the empowering journey of sobriety as a form of rebellion.
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Willpower Is Limited And Unreliable
- Willpower is a finite resource that depletes across the day as you make decisions.
- Elaine Skylar Neal warns relying on willpower to stay sober fails without a prior commitment.
Drinking Urges Live In The Subconscious
- The urge to drink often lives in the subconscious, so conscious willpower alone can't win.
- Sara Malloy emphasizes that subconscious drivers make long-term resistance difficult without deeper changes.
Create New Rituals To Replace Drinking
- Build replacement rituals to occupy the times you used to drink, like walks, baths, or tea.
- Sara Malloy and Elaine recommend forming habits so you don't exhaust willpower resisting urges.







