
Learning How to See with Brian McLaren Bonus: Listener Questions
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Jan 15, 2026 Brian and Carmen delve into the nuances of love, exploring Carmen's translation of Corinthians 13 with a focus on agape and the eternal nature of love. They discuss the importance of loving one's enemies, drawing on insights about redemption. The conversation shifts to practical advice for transitioning out of a church community with empathy. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their understanding of love through listening and self-compassion, all while promoting maturity in seeing and growing in love.
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Agape As Unconditional Grounding
- Carmen reads Paul’s language closely to show agape as unconditional, nonviolent, and communal rather than selfish.
- Translating “love never ends” avoids the fail/succeed binary and emphasizes love as the ground of being.
Hope For Opponents' Transformation
- Brian and Carmen emphasize holding hope for opponents’ change of heart rather than writing them off.
- Love may stumble but persists by refusing to declare people beyond hope.
Respond To Stress With Contextual Care
- When stressed, notice if you need rest or connection and choose accordingly instead of a one-size rule.
- Extend patience to people having bad days and assume they’re not at their best.



