

Episode 514: How to meet women (the four pathways)
35 snips Apr 21, 2025
Explore the four primary pathways to meet women: dating apps, cold approaches, social circles, and social media. Discover the trade-offs between speed and success, as faster methods often yield lower connection rates. Dive into the emotional hurdles of rejection and learn the importance of developing confidence in social settings. Understand the role of mutual feelings and commitment in both traditional and digital dating landscapes. This insightful discussion offers fresh perspectives on modern dating challenges and effective strategies.
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Four Ways To Meet Women
- There are only four ways to meet women today: dating apps, cold approach, social circle, and social media.
- The easiest and fastest paths have lower success rates, while slower, harder ones yield better results.
Dating Apps Favor Attractive Men
- Dating apps are convenient and low-risk but offer low success rates for average men.
- Attractiveness above a certain level dramatically increases success on apps, making them a less reliable path for most men.
Master Cold Approach Skills
- Develop cold approach skills to boost confidence and real-time connection with women.
- Expect to practice many approaches to overcome anxiety and improve success rates.