Pico Iyer, a renowned travel writer and author of 'Aflame - Learning from Silence', shares his unique insights on silence and mindfulness. He dives into the impact of solitude found in monastic life and how it offers clarity amidst chaos. The conversation explores the paradox of creativity fostered by constraints and the beauty in moments of loss. Iyer emphasizes the urgency of being present in a distraction-laden world and meditates on how silence can lead to a deeper understanding of self and society.
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Wildfire Loss Shaping Perspective
Pico Iyer experienced losing his home to wildfires in the 1990s and reflected on its lasting impact during current fires.
He lived in darkness and uncertainty for days, connecting deeply with the impermanence of life and beauty.
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Fire as Renewal and Metaphor
Fire is a natural cycle that clears and replenishes ecosystems, essential for many plants and animals.
This natural disaster metaphorically relates to life’s cycles of loss and renewal, opening new beginnings.
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Stillness as Inner Resource
Mindfulness and stillness are means to reclaim calm amidst the accelerating pace of life.
Inner resources gathered through silence or meditation help face life’s challenges more constructively.
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In *The Half-Known Life: In Search of Paradise*, Pico Iyer embarks on a quest to understand and find 'paradise' as conceived by various cultures and religions. His journey takes him to places like Iran, North Korea, Jerusalem, and Japan, where he encounters the intersection of faith, conflict, and the human search for peace. Iyer reflects on the inconsistencies and discord in these 'troubled places' and grapples with the idea that paradise might be more of an internal state than a physical location. The book is a blend of travel narrative, philosophical musings, and personal introspection, exploring the nature of life and its many meanings[1][3][4].
Aflame
Pico Iyer
Welcome to episode #986 of Six Pixels of Separation - The ThinkersOne Podcast.
Pico Iyer lives between worlds - geographically, culturally, and spiritually - and that makes him one of the most attuned chroniclers of what it means to be alive right now. Best known for travel writing that often transcends borders and genres (The Global Soul, Video Night in Kathmandu, The Lady and the Monk), Pico is also a deeply reflective thinker about silence, stillness, and solitude. In his latest book, Aflame - Learning from Silence, he returns to a Benedictine monastery in Big Sur - a place he has visited over 100 times - to explore what it means to pause in a world that won’t stop moving. This isn’t a religious retreat or a spiritual how-to. It’s a meditation on fire: what we lose, what remains, and how burning down can be its own kind of beginning. In this conversation, we talk about the power of silence in an always-on culture, why the monastic life holds so much wisdom even for secular people, and how loss (of home, of place, of identity) can be a clarifier rather than just a crisis. There are moments of levity (Leonard Cohen, a fellow monastery-goer, makes an appearance), but mostly what Pico offers is a quiet urgency: that we’re missing too much while looking at everything. His reflections on mindfulness, technology, climate anxiety, writing, and what it means to find meaning when everything feels untethered will resonate with anyone seeking more presence in a distracted world (also check out his other books: The Art of Stillness and The Half Known Life). Pico splits his time between Japan and California, writes with grace and generosity for The New York Times, Time, The New York Review of Books and others. If you’re struggling to make sense of modern life, this one offers something deeper than answers - it offers permission to pause. He is one of my mentors and someone I constantly think about. Enjoy the conversation…
(00:00) - The Impact of Wildfires and Personal Loss. (02:55) - Nature's Call: The Urgency of Change. (06:07) - Fire as a Metaphor for Renewal. (08:47) - Mindfulness in a Fast-Paced World. (12:04) - The Essence of Stillness and Silence. (14:57) - The Role of Technology in Connection and Disconnection. (17:58) - Finding Serendipity in Everyday Life. (21:05) - The Monastic Experience: A Journey Within. (23:58) - Exploring the Concept of Cells in Monasteries. (27:00) - The Intersection of Religion and Personal Growth. (35:25) - The Essence of a Holy Day. (36:36) - Life in the Monastery: A Unique Perspective. (39:00) - Leonard Cohen: The Monk and the Artist. (46:45) - Solitude vs. Community: The Monastic Life. (48:50) - The Art of Writing: Silence and Reflection. (55:26) - Facing Silence: The Challenge of Solitude. (57:35) - Creating in Chaos: The Need for Retreat. (01:04:28) - Lessons from Japan: A Different Perspective.
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