

How Identifying Your Priorities Can Inform Your Relationship Structure
Aug 10, 2023
Discover how shifting your focus from finding the perfect partner to nurturing yourself can transform your relationships. The discussion delves into how personal priorities influence various relationship structures like soloamory and non-monogamy. It unpacks the meaningful distinctions between needs, desires, and priorities. The conversation also highlights a five-step process to clarify your evolving priorities, promoting strong self-relationships as the foundation for healthier connections. Challenge societal norms and explore the potential of diverse relationships!
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Jenny's Journey to Self-Focus
- Jenny was frustrated by her repeated short relationships and wanted to understand why they failed.
- She chose to pause dating to focus on deepening her relationship with herself first.
Clarifying Needs, Desires, and Priorities
- Needs are essential for well-being, while desires are wants that bring joy but aren't essential.
- Priorities rank needs and desires by importance and can shift based on life context.
Identify Your True Priorities
- Reflect deeply on your current life priorities to guide your ideal relationship structure.
- Write them down, distinguish your own from external expectations, and take your time to explore.