Death, Sex & Money How a Matchmaking Job Inspired a Film About Dating's Secret Economy
Jun 3, 2025
Celine Song, the director of 'Past Lives,' reflects on her journey from matchmaking to filmmaking. She shares how her matchmaking experiences inspired her new movie, 'Materialists,' starring stars like Dakota Johnson and Chris Evans. The discussion dives into the interplay between love and financial dynamics in modern dating, revealing how societal pressures shape relationships. Celine also explores themes of beauty, wealth, and the complexities artists face, underscoring the intricate connections between personal and professional lives in the creative world.
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Meaning of $80K Salary in NYC
- $80,000 in New York City is just enough for an ambitious woman to maintain a materialistic lifestyle but not enough to live comfortably.
- It represents the edge of sustaining a lifestyle she aspires to without financial ease.
Desire for Higher-Earning Partner
- Many people still desire a partner who earns more money, reflecting deep-rooted social expectations.
- This desire persists quietly, even as it feels embarrassing to admit, and influences dating decisions.
Celine's Matchmaking Experience
- Celine Song worked as a professional matchmaker for six months in her early 20s.
- This job taught her a lot about people, desire, and how we talk about love openly and bluntly in dating.