

22. What are we fighting for - The Psychology of Conflict
6 snips Feb 13, 2022
Explore the psychological intricacies of interpersonal conflicts and why we fight with those we love. Uncover how healthy disagreements can actually strengthen relationships, while recognizing the pitfalls of harmful communication styles. Learn about the damaging effects of stonewalling and how to recognize high conflict personalities. Delve into the amygdala's role in triggering fear responses during conflicts and discover strategies for fostering empathy and resolution in challenging situations.
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Conflict with Loved Ones
- Conflict arises more with loved ones due to comfort in expressing anger and insecurities.
- We feel most misunderstood by those we expect to understand us best.
Arguments and Outcomes
- Arguing doesn't always lead to positive outcomes, even in healthy relationships.
- A study found that nurses arguing reduced good decision-making and patient care.
Misunderstandings and Conflict
- Misunderstandings are a common cause of conflict, even if innocuous.
- People misinterpret words, actions, or silence, damaging relationships.