girl talk: responding to your love & friendship dilemmas
Nov 22, 2023
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Topics include dealing with income differences in relationships, determining if you like someone or just the idea of them, meeting people organically, opening up after being hurt, knowing when to cut a friend out of your life, and managing home friendships after moving away.
Assess the intentions of friends who schedule important events on days you can't attend and communicate your feelings.
Take small steps in dating, prioritize your well-being, and communicate your fears and intentions to the person if necessary.
Deep dives
Navigating changing friendships
It can be tough when friends back home book major life events on days you can't attend. Assess the intentions of your friends and communicate your feelings to them. Understand that life still happens and priorities shift as you live abroad. Consider the overall quality of the friendship and whether it's worth maintaining. Focus on the meaningful relationships in your life and communicate your needs and emotions openly.
Overcoming fear of dating
If you're scared of dating due to past experiences, try to take small steps and meet people as friends initially. Give yourself time and space, and only pursue a romantic relationship when you feel ready. If you're unsure about someone's intentions or unsure if it's your time to date, try going on low-pressure outings and see how you feel. Communicate your fears and intentions to the person if it becomes necessary. Remember, there's no rush, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being.
Dealing with the ick and potential flirtation
If you're feeling icky about someone who you think may be flirting with you, try to determine if it's the situation or the person that's giving you the feeling. If it's just the situation, consider pushing through your discomfort and getting to know the person better as friends. Communicate openly and be honest about your feelings as the situation develops. Trust your instincts and take it at your own pace. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and reassess your feelings as the relationship progresses.
you asked & we responded!! in this ep, i'm joined by my girlfriends to chat all about what's going on in YOUR lives & the love/friendship dilemmas that are taking up your brain space rn. amongst other things, we address:
how to deal with income differences (aka how to date a broke man)
how to know if you like someone, or just the idea of them
how to meet people organically (not on dating apps)
how to open up to people, especially if you've been hurt in the past
how to know when to cut a friend out of your life
dealing with home friendships/important events happening, after you've moved away
also, please excuse the 'bleeps', there were simply too many JUICY personal stories told in this episode. š¤«
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