012: LOOK for THESE THINGS In A Church After Church Hurt! (Celebrating Healthy Pastors and Churches)

Church is supposed to be a place where we come to connect with God and other believers. But sometimes, church can be a scary place, especially if you've been through church hurt or spiritual abuse before. In this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, we highlight what healthy pastors and healthy churches look like. We also talk about signs of a safe and healthy church that you can look for when re-engaging with the church after church hurt. If you've experienced religious trauma, know you are not alone. But also know that there are really good and healthy churches out there. Our prayer is this episode helps you find one. And for pastors, we hope this video helps you become a healthier leader and build safe churches. Also, happy pastor's appreciation month to the loving shepherds out there! THANK YOU to our podcast partner, The Forgiveness Link!!! Schedule your free consultation with Rob here and let him know we sent you to get a special Church Disrupted rate! https://theforgivenesslink.com/churchdisruptedcommunity ANOTHER BIG THANK YOU to the East TN Mentorship Association! Find out more information about what they do or connect with them at https://earnyoursanctuary.com/ . TELL THEM WE SENT YOU for a special rate that is ONLY for Church Disrupted Podcast listeners. Find out MORE about our podcast partners here: https://www.disrupted.church/sponsors. Want to support Church Disrupted financially? https://www.disrupted.church/give Find out more about the Church Disrupted Podcast at https://www.disrupted.church/. Please Subscribe and Share! Follow us on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/church_disrupted Follow us on TikTok here: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeff.a.cochran TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Intro 02:00 - Why we are talking about this topic 03:55 - The GOOD We are seeing in the Church 05:31 - When the Pastor gets to know you 10:50 - Pastoring is About Being with People 13:10 - Authenticity and Vulnerability 14:43 - Highling Podcast Partners 17:12 - Pastors who apologize and call their own fouls 21:54 - When Pastors are REAL 23:06 - Dealing with Church Hurt Triggers 24:21 - True Pastoral Care 33:31 - Encouragements for Pastors who want to lead well 40:11 - When Churches get it right 43:29 - Volunteering and Money Issues 51:02 - The Power of Seeing People 54:19 - Final words for pastors and churches 01:01:33 - Conclusion and Outro