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Sexology

EP398 - Sexual Grief: Trauma, Loss & Heartbreak

Aug 6, 2024
Edy Nathan, a licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist based in New York City, delves into the intricate concept of sexual grief. She reveals how trauma and loss shape sexual identity and emotional well-being, emphasizing anecdotes that highlight its impact. Edy discusses developmental sexual grief and its ties to conservative backgrounds, encouraging curiosity for deeper intimacy. Additionally, she shares insights on reclaiming love after trauma, illustrating how understanding this grief can lead to healing and enhanced relationships.
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  • Sexual grief represents a valid emotional response to trauma that can profoundly affect one's sexual identity and relationships.
  • Addressing sexual grief requires open communication and self-exploration to reclaim intimacy and heal from past sexual traumas.

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Understanding Sexual Grief

Sexual grief is defined as a natural response to sexually traumatic events or developmental experiences that affect a person's sexual identity and desire. This concept expands beyond the traditional understanding of grief related to losing a loved one, incorporating personal losses tied to one's sexual experiences and identity. For instance, a participant shared how a false rumor about a pregnancy affected his sense of self and his ability to connect intimately with others. This emphasizes the importance of recognizing sexual grief as a valid experience that can significantly impact one’s emotional and sexual well-being.

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