This is Your Year to Start Receiving Instead of People-Pleasing

Happy New Year. For women with super traits, there is often a quiet exhaustion underneath the hope and desire for more. You have done everything right, and something still is not working.

If pleasure, desire, and connection disappear the moment stress enters your relationships, this explains why. This is not a personal failure or lack of effort. It is a body-level adaptation.

Women with super traits were conditioned to maintain connection through over-giving, emotional labor, fixing, and absorbing discomfort so others did not have to. When tension appears, the nervous system shifts into management mode, and pleasure shuts down automatically.

This is the second part of my work, which offers clarity around why reconnecting to desire is not enough and why trying harder only deepens the pattern. The issue is not communication, effort, or commitment. The belief is that love must be earned through contribution.

It's time to introduce the RECEIVER IDENTITY.

A receiver can say no without guilt, allow disappointment, and stay connected to her desire even under pressure. Receiving is not passive or selfish. It is a regulated authority.

Transformation begins with deconditioning the reflex to overfunction. Identifying the patterns that tie connection to self-abandonment and learning how to stay present, grounded, and receptive when stress arises.

This is the year of doing less with intention. This is the year of receiving.

Take the free Super Trait Quiz to understand why these patterns show up so strongly during the holidays.

Book a Super Trait Audit for clarity on where overfunctioning is costing you energy, connection, and desire.

Apply for the Pleasure Centered Society if you are ready to stop carrying the emotional load and start being met.

00:00:00 Introduction and New Year Reflections 00:00:47 Transformations and Challenges 00:04:56 Understanding Super Traits 00:08:13 The Pleasure Problem 00:13:35 Receiver Identity 00:18:02 The Path to True Pleasure and Connection 00:24:47 Restoring Pleasure