On Purpose with Jay Shetty 6 Lessons I Wish I Knew in My 20’s & 30’s (This Will INSTANTLY Give You Direction!)
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Nov 21, 2025 In this insightful conversation, the importance of recognizing the difference between success and happiness is revealed, urging listeners to define both on their own terms. Jay shares the often overlooked reality of healing, emphasizing that true growth can feel chaotic rather than inspiring. He encourages breaking free from the pressure of others' expectations and highlights the value of trusting oneself. With personal stories and practical advice, he reassures us that feeling lost is a natural part of personal development in our twenties and thirties.
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Results Are Overrated
- Chasing outcomes alone is a trap because you see 1% of someone's life and ignore the process behind it.
- Love your path by choosing systems and habits you can commit to, not trophies you only admire from afar.
Tune Out Approval, Hear Your Voice
- Stop doing things purely for others' approval and start doing what you'd choose if no one judged you.
- Write the three loudest voices in your head and ask what you'd want if they didn't exist, then follow that voice.
Success And Happiness Are Different Roads
- Success and happiness operate on different axes: success is external achievement and happiness is internal feeling.
- Treat them as separate journeys and cultivate both strategies for success and habits for happiness.