The School of Greatness The SECRET To Desire In A Long-Term Relationship w/Esther Perel EP 1236
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Mar 4, 2022 
In this enlightening discussion, Esther Perel, a renowned psychotherapist and bestselling author, shares her expertise on modern relationships. She addresses common obstacles, such as the complexities of desire and trust. Perel emphasizes the significance of novelty and emotional risk-taking to sustain intimacy over time. They delve into communication strategies post-infidelity and the balance of expectations within partnerships. With insights on navigating emotional dynamics, Perel’s wisdom offers transformative tools for fostering deeper connections.
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Relationship Killers
- The biggest challenges in relationships are indifference, neglect, violence, and contempt.
- Contempt is the most destructive because it degrades the other person.
Sex and Relationships
- Societal shifts in the last 60 years have drastically changed how we view sex and relationships.
- Sex is now for pleasure and connection, making long-term desire a new challenge.
Maintaining Desire
- To maintain desire, focus on personal well-being and confidence, as these are attractive qualities.
- Create opportunities for mystery, playfulness, and emotional risk-taking in your relationship.