Life Kit Dear LK: My son is upset his brother didn't make him best man. Should I intervene?
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Nov 3, 2022 Catherine Newman, an etiquette columnist for Real Simple magazine, offers sage advice to a mother concerned about her son's hurt feelings over not being chosen as best man. The conversation dives into the complexities of family dynamics during weddings, exploring sibling rivalries and the emotional weight of these roles. Newman emphasizes the importance of open communication and encouraging support over intervention. The discussion promotes a positive perspective, urging families to prioritize love and understanding in such pivotal moments.
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Focus on Your Own Feelings
- Process hurt feelings with loved ones, but avoid meddling in others' affairs.
- Weddings are about the couple getting married, not about other family members.
Embrace Your Role
- Find ways to participate actively and positively, like giving a toast or offering help.
- Focus on being a loving and supportive brother.
Intervening Wisely
- Only intervene if you possess crucial information needed to resolve the issue.
- Offer help, but respect their autonomy if they decline.